Why You Shouldn't Share Your Teen's Mental Health Issues Publicly Online

Nowadays, the majority of this society tends to spend more time online with social media. In this way, they reduce face-to-face contact with people surrounding them. That means if a person is not involved in the relationship healthily and increases the online presence of all deals, this can cause feelings of isolation and depression.

In this article, we are not going to consider the addiction of teenagers to social media. Here we aim to focus on the impacts parents can cause while sharing their teens’ mental health issues online. 

Unfortunately, mental disorders, especially in youths, are found very frequently. The principal sources are social stress, isolation, etc. 

People are so involved in this online sphere that there comes a time when they forget about separating their personal space from a digital one. Sometimes the disruption of the parent-child relationship is closely related to the digital world.

The problem is that parents share posts about their teen’s mental health on social platforms forgetting that teenagers are old enough to have their privacy. It is their separate area, and they decide whether to inform about health crises online or not. Here are some key points every parent should take into account while deciding to share health problems publicly:

Every Child Has A Right To Say ‘NO’

Adolescents’ psychological well-being partially depends on the right to express their opinions, especially when the topic refers to them.  Not seeking your kids’ permission to post their photos online may cause serious problems. In this way, you trample their rights as individuals to think independently and choose what is best for them. This step will help them break the borders of their limited freedom. That will be essential in both present and future relationships. Simply put, ask before posting about your child, and what you post should not be their mental health information.

Every Child Has A Right To Say ‘NO’

Parents And Children Should Have Mutual Trust

Naturally, young children tend to trust their parents more than teenagers. As growing, they seek more independence and finally require personal space and privacy. Trust means to have confidence in someone’s this or that doings. So if parents share private information on social media without permission, they will hurt their relationships with teens and, at worst, break their trust. As it is said, it can take years to earn the trust and just a matter of seconds to lose. 

Youth’s wishes for independence may not always align with parents’ needs. When a parent posts about his child’s mental health issues, they do that to get parenting advice or decrease the shame. So, they think of themselves as a parent, but not of their teen’s privacy.

Try To Talk To Your Children About Their Mental Health Issues

Talking to your teens about mental health can be utterly embarrassing. They may feel troubled to speak about their inside feelings. But these issues are essential, and every parent should have these kinds of conversations with their kids.  In this way,  parents can detect some warning signs and try to avoid further complications.  

If you sense your child is suffering from mental health problems, the first step is to encourage them to talk and share their emotions. However, these conversations are better to start at an early age, as they will understand your point easier. 

Ask Your Teens Whether You Can Share Their Mental Health Issues Publicly Online
Why You Shouldn't Share Your Teen's Mental Health Issues Publicly Online

Ask Your Teens Whether You Can Share Their Mental Health Issues Publicly Online

Sometimes parents share their kids’ problems online without imagining the irreversible results. In that case, asking their permission is a must. Posting their photos on social media is another thing, but sharing private and identifying information is serious. 

Parents used to share the experience of overcoming their teens’ mental health disorders to help others suffering from it. But let’s take into account that you should NOT do that without the permission of your child. 

It is such a sensitive topic that your child should be ready to share his personal experiences on social platforms. 

Maybe they will be happy to help someone fighting against this pandemic, or they will be pleased to be a small part of this journey. Perhaps that’s a great chance to feel appreciated by encouraging others to normalize their health conditions. 

Mental health problems don’t define who you are. They are something you experience. You walk in the rain and you feel the rain, but, importantly, YOU ARE NOT THE RAIN.

So, avoid stressing your child and causing health disorders. 

To conclude, parents should be careful when they want to share information about their teens’  diseases. While deciding to talk about these issues on Facebook groups or other social platforms, ask yourself these questions: 

  • Isn’t your action risky for your child’s psychological world?
  • Do you have a proper right to share your teen’s health issues publicly?
  • Will your child trust you after that?

After analyzing all these subjects and following the details mentioned above, you will make a better judgment which will be effective for both sides.

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